Showing posts with label interracial marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label interracial marriage. Show all posts

9/14/14

Another Day Cops has Falsely ARRESTED a BLACK CELEBRITY!



"Partners" Star Daniele Watts & Husband Claim Cops ARRESTED Her...After Being Horribly 
Another day, another case of police foolery.  While its understandable that police departments would want to crack down on prostitution and illegal behavior in communities, it's simply unfortunate that racial prejudices can cloud an officer's take on "right" and "wrong".  And who actually is, in fact, actually engaging in criminal behavior.

Daniele Watts, who played "CoCo" in Django Unchained and currently stars as Martin Lawrence's daughter on the FX show "Partners", says she was wrongfully arrested on September 11th after being mistaken for a prostitute!

How is this possible?  She was dressed in "short shorts", a t-shirt and sneakers, which is the same outfit plenty of people wear to live out their day.  And she was spotted sharing a PDA moment with a white man -- HER HUSBAND.  The couple has also shared pics and video from the dramatic situation.
Daniele was handcuffed after refusing to show ID (which she says she was within her rights to not do, based on the law).  And both she and her husband are now telling the frightening & frustrating story of how they were accosted, forcefully handled, and the physically and emotional hurt.

The actress posted her whole story to her Facebook page saying:
Today I was handcuffed and detained by 2 police officers from the Studio City Police Department after refusing to agree that I had done something wrong by showing affection, fully clothed, in a public place.
When the officer arrived, I was standing on the sidewalk by a tree. I was talking to my father on my cell phone. I knew that I had done nothing wrong, that I wasn’t harming anyone, so I walked away.

A few minutes later, I was still talking to my dad when 2 different police officers accosted me and forced me into handcuffs.
As I was sitting in the back of the police car, I remembered the countless times my father came home frustrated or humiliated by the cops when he had done nothing wrong. I felt his shame, his anger, and my own feelings of frustration for existing in a world where I have allowed myself to believe that “authority figures” could control my BEING… my ability to BE!!!!!!!

I was sitting in that back of this cop car, filled with adrenaline, my wrist bleeding in pain, and it occurred to me, that even there, I STILL HAD POWER OVER MY OWN SPIRIT.
Those cops could not stop me from expressing myself. They could not stop the cathartic tears and rage from flowing out of me. They could not force me to feel bad about myself. Yes, they had control over my physical body, but not my emotions. My feelings. My spirit was, and still is FREE.

I will continue to look any “authority figure” in the eye without fear. NO POLICE OFFICER OR GOVERNMENT OFFICIAL IS MORE POWERFUL THAN ME. WE ARE EQUALS. I KNOW THAT I WILL ALWAYS BE FREE BECAUSE THAT IS THE NATURE OF MY SPIRIT.
And moreover, I deeply enjoyed connecting with the cops who detained me. I allowed myself to be honest about my anger, frustration, and rage as tears flowed from my eyes. The tears I cry for a country that calls itself "the land of the free and the home of the brave" and yet detains people for claiming that very right.
Today I exist with courage, knowing that I am blessed to have experienced what I did today. All of those feelings, no matter how uncomfortable. These feelings are what builds my internal strength, my ability to grow through WHATEVER may happen to me.
That internal knowing is what guides me in this world. Not the law, not fear, not mistrust of government or cops or anything else.
In this moment there is a still small voice whispering to me. It says: You are love. You are free. You are pure.

Her husband, Chef Brian James Lucas, has an equally powerful account of what occurred:
Today, Daniele Watts & I were accosted by police officers after showing our affection publicly.
From the questions that he asked me as D was already on her phone with her dad, I could tell that whoever called on us (including the officers), saw a tatted RAWKer white boy and a hot bootie shorted black girl and thought we were a HO (prostitute) & a TRICK (client).
This is something that happened to her and her father when she was 16. What an assumption to make!!!

Because of my past experience with the law, I gave him my ID knowing we did nothing wrong and when they asked D for hers, she refused to give it because they had no right to do so.
So they handcuffed her and threw her roughly into the back of the cop car until they could figure out who she was. In the process of handcuffing her, they cut her wrist, which was truly NOT COOL!!!
Our freedom isn't freedom folks, when people can abuse others with no reason or evidence at all just because they "think" they have been given the power by people that are ONLY equal to us.

Of course, they had to let her go eventually cuz we weren't a threat to anyone.
They weren't expecting D to be so intelligent and outspoken, and left truly feeling the fear vibration finding out that they had just fucked with 2 celebrities (Celebrated People).
WE ALL HAVE THE SAME POWER INDIVIDUALLY IN THIS WORLD, AND I'M GLAD WE'RE ALL TAKING IT BACK ONE BEING AT A TIME!

As for the exact reason for the arrest, Brian says:
The Studio City police dept handcuffed (and injured her wrist while handcuffing) and detained #DanieleWatts because she refused to give ID with no probable cause, just because we were displaying public affection. NOT COOL AT ALL!!!!

But why were they approached or accosted in the first place?  The couple seems to believe it's because of their interracial interaction on the street, which led cops to incorrectly assume a prostitution situation was occurring.

Brian says the couple is in contact with three lawyers, the ACLU, and the NAACP.
DAMN JUST DAMN!

4/10/13

Black Woman talks About White Spouse Calling Her “N*gger B*tch” in Bed




Black Woman Sends Inquiry to Essence About White Spouse Calling Her “Nigger Bitch” in Bed
Are You Serious?, What's Up
Surely Essence Magazine’s Abiola Abrams has heard her share of intimacy issues from couples in relationships of every sort since being in the love business, but something tells us that her latest inquiry was a little different.

A black woman wrote into the magazine saying that her husband calls her “nigger bitch” during sex and has joked about “purchasing her freedom” when he married her and he has been dropping the n-bomb since their honeymoon.  Which begs the question that if he was able to refrain from saying it before they got married, what made him start after they were married?

Her husband is a white investment banker from a family of old money who proposed six months after knowing her.  From her own account, she has “the picture perfect fantasy life.”  He spares no expense to make her happy by wining and dining her all over the globe and:

“Unlike all of the Black men I dated in the past, my husband is generous, loyal, committed and considerate. He courted me and I never have to pay for anything. He said I could quit my job and I did. He makes me feel like a woman.”
That is a loaded statement that exhibits her insanity.  The black men dogged her and were the antithesis to this man, yet her very own Calvin Candie disrespects her core self and she still believes he makes her feel like a woman??  C’mon, Son! It’s about the money! 

Abiola later broke it down to the root and said what we were thinking:
“If you stay with your man for money while he is speaking down to you, then I’m afraid you have personally sold yourself at an auction to the highest bidder. It’s time for a self-esteem check, doll face.”
This “first generation Black-American woman whose family is from the island of Jamaica” said that while this man compares her to previous black women he’s dated and admits his want to use the n-word freely, but doesn’t understand why he can’t, is not interested in leaving this man.  So she advised Abiola NOT to suggest that as a part of her advice.  But she wrote things like:

“…a Black woman he dated in the past enjoyed being called racial slurs. Another time he joked that he had purchased my freedom. He also speculated about whether his family could have owned mine because I have ‘good hair.’ Then he made jokes about my pubic hair. He called it my ‘negro bush’ and referred to himself as a ‘nigger lover.’ He says I am being overly sensitive because he loves me to death and should get a ‘Black pass’ for marrying me.”
Wow!

The woman did exhibit some smarts when saying that she didn’t want to have children with him before these issues were addressed. Abiola tried to respectfully address this extremely confused woman’s request for help    by saying:

“…queen, your husband needs a history lesson and you need counseling. 
His comments are verbally abusive and emotionally harmful. I agree that this issue needs to be addressed before you bring children into the picture.
She then had to break with the flowery counseling and just give her the essentials.

“Reality check: I know that you don’t want to leave your husband. It’s a beautiful thing that you are taking your vows seriously. He, however, is not. He is not loving, honoring nor cherishing you. If traveling the globe playing “Real Housewife of the Big House” while he drops n-bombs is not your idea of fun then you need to ask yourself some serious questions.”
Some serrrrioooous questions!

What is your advice for her?

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